What Are Your Green Flags? 🌿
Do you know why you're a catch?
We spend so much time talking about red flags.
Social media is full of conversations about warning signs, unhealthy relationship patterns, dealbreakers, and the things we should avoid in other people. It’s important to be aware of these things, of course. They can help us make better decisions and build healthier relationships.
But lately, I’ve been wondering about something else.
What about our green flags?
The qualities that make people genuinely lucky to have us in their lives.
Not our achievements. Not our job titles. Not the things we’ve accomplished.
I’m talking about the quieter qualities.
The way we show up for people.
The way we listen.
The way we make others feel.
The way we care.
The things we do so naturally that we often don’t even notice them.
Maybe you’re the friend who always remembers to check in when someone is having a difficult time. Maybe you’re someone who makes people feel safe enough to be themselves. Maybe you’re dependable, thoughtful, encouraging, curious, loyal, or kind. Maybe you have a way of making people feel seen and understood.
These qualities can be easy to overlook because they don’t always get celebrated the way achievements do. Yet they are often the very things that make someone a wonderful friend, partner, colleague, or human being.
So this week, I thought it would be fun to do something a little different.
Instead of focusing on what needs fixing, let’s take a moment to appreciate what’s already good. I created a short Green Flags Quiz designed to help you discover some of the qualities that make you a catch.
Eight questions. Less than two minutes.
😉 Find out why you’re a catch
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